http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20807315,00.html Congrats are in order! #jennygarth #dannywhalberg

I don’t think that Mimi did a sex tape because she has low self-esteem. I think she did it because she wanted to. Don’t try to push your discomfort about sex on someone else.

I feel very lost because two weeks of great conversation has abruptly stopped. The last talk we had he told me that he loved me and since then he’s been silent. I know that a relationship might never happen between us but I’m still in love with him. I also love everything about him but especially how safe I feel with him and I haven’t felt that way about anyone in years.

I may text him for Good Friday but I’m hoping that he contacts me first. I know that if he texted me and asked me to come see him, I’d be on the first thing smoking. That’s how strong my feelings are for him and I’ve walked out on my last 5 relationships because of my unrequited feelings.

I’m off to do some more writing (I run a style blog and I work in Image Consulting) send me some good vibes and keep me in your prayers.

trw

Meeting my ex for dinner so I can get my Maxwell CD's back

Meeting my ex for dinner so I can get my Maxwell CD’s back by topaz-yolande-mckenzie featuring a butter london nail polish

Little black dress
$33 - fashionunion.com

Gold ring
$140 - wolfandbadger.com

Kendra scott earrings
neimanmarcus.com

Bracelet set
bershka.com

Cateye sunglasses
nastygal.com

Black mascara
lordandtaylor.com

Stila lipstick
revolveclothing.com

Meeting my ex for dinner so I can get my Maxwell CD's back

Meeting my ex for dinner so I can get my Maxwell CD’s back by topaz-yolande-mckenzie featuring a butter london nail polish

Little black dress
$33 - fashionunion.com

Gold ring
$140 - wolfandbadger.com

Kendra scott earrings
neimanmarcus.com

Bracelet set
bershka.com

Cateye sunglasses
nastygal.com

Black mascara
lordandtaylor.com

Stila lipstick
revolveclothing.com

Oh No Brandy has ended her engagement too Ryan Press http://ow.ly/vOpVI

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If he loves you, he’ll do his best to prove it. When he’s proven that his love is inconsistent, don’t take it personally. You can’t make anyone love you and if you could why would you want to? Loving someone means sacrificing your time, energy and money. When you can’t trust or share those things with someone don’t waste your time trying to convince them of your worth. Also recognize when someone is stringing you along. Some men will lead a woman on with no intentions of making a commitment but will pop up every few months just to make sure the woman hasn’t moved on.

Stop the cycle and ask him point blank “What do you want?”. If he says something along the lines of “I want to be friends” or “I want to get to know you” reply sweetly “no, I don’t need new friends” and hang up the phone.
My advice may seem cruel but I’ve counselled so many women who are hung up on guys who don’t love them or treat them with no respect.
I’ve had to snip the strings with a guy who I liked but would never step up and it’s the best thing I’ve ever done. Spend your time with people who want to get to know you not those who have placed you on a waiting list.
If your special guy hasn’t appeared yet, use your free time to pursue a hobby or volunteer. Just don’t get in the debilitating habit of caring about someone who can go a week without speaking to you.

You can email me your questions about love and dating at
thereluctantwife@gmail.com

Happy Dating!

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