There are some people who will date/woo you because they don’t want you to move on. Long conversation, tasty dinners and life-changing kisses all amount to nothing because the pursuer wants to occupy your time so know one else can have you.
If you’re dating someone past the age of 25 and they want to date indefinitely, refuse to talk about the future and feigns interest in you every time you start liking someone new….RING THE ALARM. People unfortunately can be selfish and they oft hate the idea of someone they’ve dated moving on. It’s easy to get caught up with sweet words and promises but I encourage you to not get caught up in the actions but evaluate the words!